20 of My Best Tips for Finding Love After 40

  1. Date a few people at a time until you’re ready to become exclusive with one.
  2. When words and action don’t align, pay more attention to actions.
  3. The three most important elements of a partner are kindness, consistency, and character.
  4. Don’t make assumptions about your date. Learn about your date by getting curious.
  5. Don’t bring your past relationships to your present relationship or date. See each person as a clean slate.
  6. When a person first reveals him/herself to you, pay close attention. That’s when you learn most of what you need to know.
  7. If a woman has shown clear interest to a man on a first date, she doesn’t need to text the next day to remind him that they had a great date.
  8. Know your absolute must-haves in a relationship. Don’t sway from that list.
  9. If a woman wants a take charge man, she should stop making all the plans.
  10. You don’t need a perfect body and face to be attractive. Attraction is about confidence in who you and what you’ve got. Work it!
  11. Don’t invest more into a potential partner than they invest in you.
  12. Don’t put someone on a pedestal. They will only look down on you.
  13. Balance your heart and head, and enter a relationship with your eyes wide open. The character and values you see at the beginning are what you will get at the end.
  14. Women need to stop hoping they can somehow fix a man.
  15. Don’t waste time in a relationship with someone who doesn’t value you.
  16. Don’t plan the future before there’s a present.
  17. Each date is an opportunity to learn something about yourself and about dating. Have fun and be present.
  18. As grandma said, every pot has a lid. Don’t give up hope.
  19. Your self-esteem is equal to the quality of the person you attract.
  20. Be the chooser. Don’t go into every dating thinking, “I hope he/she likes me.” Go in thinking, “I hope I like him/her.”
Publicités

Laisser un commentaire

Entrez vos coordonnées ci-dessous ou cliquez sur une icône pour vous connecter:

Logo WordPress.com

Vous commentez à l'aide de votre compte WordPress.com. Déconnexion / Changer )

Image Twitter

Vous commentez à l'aide de votre compte Twitter. Déconnexion / Changer )

Photo Facebook

Vous commentez à l'aide de votre compte Facebook. Déconnexion / Changer )

Photo Google+

Vous commentez à l'aide de votre compte Google+. Déconnexion / Changer )

Connexion à %s